Lazy days have eluded me most of my life. Only recently have I discovered what it means to wake up now and then and realize, “I have no plans, no commitments and nothing that I really HAVE to do.”

At first, it scared me.  I didn’t know what to do with myself.  For years, I dreamed of such luxury and I wanted nothing more than time to pursue all the things that I never had time to do. 

Or perhaps, time to do nothing. Take a nap. Sit in a chaise lounge in the warmth of the sun, poolside. Enjoy a warm fire. Rest. These idle moments rejuvenate mind, body and soul.

I do know that, for me, too many lazy days in a row can be habit-forming.  I must spread out the joy of laziness — recreation (I like that word better) — into reasonable intervals so that the days I re-create remain a rationed, intentional, cherished experience. Otherwise, if my days become defined by laziness and sloth, surely I miss out on all that life offers. More important, I miss out on what I can offer life... what I am meant to offer life.

​​A brief quote bears great possibility for inspiring the mind. Whether famous or not-so-famous, the often concise yet profound words of others catapult thoughts in new directions.

Take this one from JFK’s 1961 inaugural address: “Every accomplishment begins with a decision to try.”

At first read, I studied the idea of “accomplishment,” wondering if it meant heroic achievement. I settled more comfortably on something more quotidian choosing to believe that accomplishment can be as simple as the decisions we make to move us through time and space.

Ah. Then, in my quote dissection, I see JFK is way ahead of me. He clearly states that the origin of accomplishment begins with a decision. More specifically, a decision to try.

​This sparked in me a deeply held conviction that trying is an attitude, or a spirit.  If I try, I’ve already done far more than had I done nothing. I’ve acquired more information and greater perspective. Possibly improved understanding.

Without a give-it-a-try spirit, I invite defeat.

Whether JFK meant it this way or not, I read his words today – 60 years later – and interpret them as a message to humanity. We must embrace our humanness and try with all humility to improve ourselves and our world. More important, I think the essence of trying is perfected when done with an outward focus – working for others and being better for others.

​The risk of defeat at the expense of others is too much. I must try.